Lives of children

 Hello Friends,

Today I am going to discuss an essential topic for all human beings. Lives of children in the world. I will write here about my childhood life and how that life made me the way I am today.

I had a tough childhood as an elder girl in a family of three daughters. my younger sisters were not the expected siblings anyone would want. Father wasn't much close to us and mother spend more time with us than father. she has to do most of her children's work alone as the father wasn't at home most of the time. 

She got sick with cancer and suffered for a few years trying many treatments to cure it and she has gotten less support from her father for her treatments. she died when I was at age sixteen. 

However even though I had real relatives with me, I found I am alone most of the time and no one will care for me like my own mother, not even my father. So it took me years to learn that with so many betrayals from people who I thought who are dear to me. but found out most of them just looking for their advantages and profit that they can get by keeping me aside and helping me. Sad to say even my father looked at how he can get more money from me by helping me with my work. 

I won't say that every parent would be like that, only looking for their profit. There are parents who are really selfless and expect only the best for their children regardless of what parents really want. However, there are children in the world who suffer because of their parents and they find no way to save themselves from the cage they are in until they become financially independent. I had to be financially independent to free myself from the bad people who were around me.

I hope every child in the world is safe in their own homes and has unconditional love from parents. 

Who am I

 Who am I?

Still finding who am I. I used to take many personalities from time to time and think that's me. but at present, I am just wondering who am I. If I asked you the same question what is your answer. comment below. 

Anyway, I am starting this blog to write about my life, my experience, my ideas, and my views of the society and world. These are my personal thoughts and you may not agree with all. and that is what makes you and me different people. you have different likes and thoughts different to mine and that's how we two are become, different people. if you and I have some thoughts and likes then we are the same person. There is no 'I' then. we are all unique in the way we think, act and feel. so let's respect and understand each other each living being in the world. we are all lost in a world we can't control things as we want and at least let's be kind to each other so the world will be more peaceful than it is.  I will explain later why I say that we can't control the world as we want, in detail in another post. in this post, I want to introduce myself to you all

I will say my nickname is Sandy and I am living in Sri Lanka currently I am in the IT field being a developer working for a software company and trying many side hustles. and I currently living alone by myself somewhere in my country. I love cats and dogs and all types of animals. I am being independent, having my own car and rent place living my life peacefully but working hard towards my goals. But My life in the past wasn't much smooth and was a very tough road but walked through all obstacles and I am here now looking at the past and learning lessons from the past and hoping for the best in the future, we don't know how it will in future but I hope everything will be better for everyone in the world. So I will be discussing more topics in my next posts. I like to be friends with you guys and comment here so I can say hi to your call. Have a nice day. Theruwan Saranai.